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Strategie per sopravvivere ai destabilizzatori seriali

Capita di incontrare persone che vuoi per ignoranza vuoi per invidia o anche per il solo modo di essere, cercano in tutti i modi di farci credere che siamo sbagliati e che le nostre scelte son fallimentari.
Se raccontiamo il nostro obiettivo con entusiasmo e grinta, restano ad ascoltarti per 1 minuto dopodiché vanno giù con tutti i personali punti di vista che includono le loro convinzioni, le paure, i fallimenti e la personalissima visione soggettiva del mondo.
Fanno di tutto per sminuirne l’importanza del nostro impegno e perseveranza fino a metterci davanti una serie di difficoltà e criticità.
Queste persone rallentano il nostro processo di evoluzione e ci confondono fino ad installarci il dubbio.
E’ tipico di queste persone l’atteggiamento negativo e pessimista, la totale assenza di un ascolto attivo, e la facilità di esser sempre sul giudizio.
Ed ora che sai le caratteristiche di un Destabilizzatore seriale, e capito che lasciare che le sue parole e le sue convinzioni, inquinino il tuo percorso verso l’obiettivo, ti svelo la strategia per evitare che un aurea di pessimismo ed ansia, avvolgano la tua persona, compromettendo il tuo obiettivo.

LA STRATEGIA

Quando sai di dover incontrare questo tipo di persona, nei primi 20 secondi la lasci parlare dopodiché poni una domanda che spiazzi.
La mia preferita è:
Capisco il tuo punto di vista e mi piacerebbe sapere…  >>TU COME STAI??>>
Prova e scopri la reazione e se vuoi fammi sapere il risultato.
Le domande giuste sono le migliori alleate!!
 
“Dobbiamo sempre credere in chi siamo.
Non importa nient’altro”.
#RestainAscolto
Donatella
 
 

About Author

Mamma di tre figli, nata nel 1972, Donatella è una donna che ha cambiato radicalmente la sua vita utilizzando la leva del coraggio.
Un passato tormentato in relazioni deludenti e tragiche, dal quale ha saputo cogliere l'opportunità di imparare per poi poter essere d'aiuto oggi.
Manager della Multibrand Project 3.0 dal 2012 esperto in wss e Strategie per Business automatizzato, intraprende studi di PNL (programmazione neuro linguistica) all'accademia Coaching Pnl&Training di Napoli, conseguendo un Master in Coaching e Pnl.
Le esperienze personali, portano la stessa a studiare tecniche utili alla gestione e la comprensione dell'emozioni ed al controllo dello stress. Inizia così un percorso di Studio di Meditazione Trascendentale nel movimento Maharishi, e si avvicina alle discipline olistiche come lo Hatha Yoga diventando Trainer di una nuova disciplina olistica che mixa il fitness e lo yoga.
Nel 2014 riprende un progetto personale del 1987 "Sportello Rosa" e lo ristruttura in chiave Coaching Life e Olistic, trasformandolo nel movimento Donne Diversamente Stabili.
Il progetto oltre a sessioni di Coaching Life individuali ed in Team, ha un calendario di giornate di formazione e crescita personale in aziende ed associazioni e vere e proprie aule motivazionali in rosa.
A Luglio 2017 insieme a due Colleghi Coach, nasce un nuovo progetto ambizioso nell'ambito del benessere della mente e dello sviluppo di capacità utili alla memoria; R-Evolution Lab Strategy.

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